Success is peace of mind which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.
I had lunch recently with a good friend who shared her pleasure in having brought balance into her life by finding work that allowed time to enjoy the world around her. I was pleased that she was poised to start a happier life and the comfort that has come from her new found peace of mind. Far too many of us waste too much time fretting over things which we cannot control and things of little import.
If you would like to invest in a happy future put some time into working on your ability to maintain a high degree of peace of mind.
Here is an edited article by author Remez Sasson that you might help you find what my friend has found.
Peace of Mind Tips and Advice
What is peace of mind? It is a state of mental and emotional calmness, with no worries, fears or stress. In this mental and emotional state the mind becomes quiet and you feel a sense of happiness and freedom.
The question is, how to bring more peace of mind into our life, and more importantly, how to experience it in times of difficulties and ordeals. You might also ask, whether it is possible to turn it into a habit, and enjoy it always and under all circumstances. Actually, there are a few things you can do to enjoy more peace in your life.
Tips and advice for peace of mind:
Stay away from negative conversations and from negative people. You don’t want their thoughts and words sink into your subconscious mind and affect your moods and state of mind.
Don’t hold grudges. Learn to forget and forgive. Nurturing ill feelings and grievances hurts you and causes lack of sleep.
Don’t be jealous of others. Being jealous means that you have low self-esteem, and consider yourself inferior to others. Jealousy and low self esteem, often, lead to lack of inner peace.
Accept what cannot be changed. This saves a lot of time, energy and worries. Every day, we face numerous inconveniences, irritations and situations that are beyond our control. If we can change them, that’s fine, but this is not always possible. We must learn to put up with such things and accept them cheerfully.
Don’t dwell on the past. The past is not here anymore, so why think about it? Let bygones be gone. Forget the past and focus on the present moment. There is no need to evoke unpleasant memories and immerse yourself in them.
Learn to be more patient and tolerant with family, friends, coworkers, employees, and everyone else. Don’t take everything too personally. A certain degree of emotional and mental detachment is very helpful. On many occassions, it would be useful to inject a certain measure of detachment and non-involvement. This would bring into your life more peace, harmony and common sense.
Learn to focus your mind. When you are able to focus your mind, you can more easily reject worries and anxieties, refuse to think negative thoughts, and reduce the constant chatter of your mind.
Meditation is not everyone’s cup of tea, but if you have the time, and are willing to try it, even just a few minutes a day will make a difference in your life. You will become more peaceful, relaxed and happy.
Inner peace ultimately leads to external peace. By creating peace in your inner world, in your mind, you bring it into your external world, and into other people’s lives.
The minute you stop overwhelming your mind with caring about what everyone else thinks, and start doing what you feel in your heart is right, is the minute you will finally feel freedom and peace of mind.
“If we were rich,” said Mrs. Abrahams, “we’d spend six months a year in Florida, six months a year in Europe, and six months a year in California.”
“But dear, that would make eighteen months in a year!” said her husband.
“Indeed it would, Herbert. Isn’t is wonderful what you can do with money?”
One of the secrets of a long and fruitful life is to forgive everybody everything every night before you go to bed.
A couple just started their Lamaze class and they were given an activity requiring the husband to wear a bag of sand to give him an idea of what it feels like to be pregnant. The husband stood up and shrugged saying, “This doesn’t feel so bad.”
The instructor then dropped a pen and asked the husband to pick it up.
“You want me to pick up the pen as if I were pregnant, the way my wife would do it?” the husband asked.
“Exactly,” replied the instructor.
To the delight of the other husbands, he turned to his wife and said, “Honey, pick up that pen for me.”
When it comes to work, there are many who will stop at nothing.
Not expecting to do at all well in the economics exam, Harold was heartened by the first question: In any given year, and to the nearest ton, how much wheat did the United States export?
Smiling confidently, Harold wrote, “1492; none.”
A little boy asked his mother, “Mummy, am I descended from a monkey?”
The mother replied, “I don’t know, son, I’ve never met your father’s folks.”
Three Reform Rabbis were in a terrible auto wreck. None survived. One minute they were driving along the highway, talking and laughing and joking, and the next, BOOM! they were before the Creator of all.
Shaking his head, The Omnipotent One looks at the three. “Reform I can understand. But where will it end? You! Goldblum! The ashtrays in your temple so My people could smoke while the Torah was being read???”
God went on. “I can live with that. Men are weak, but the Word is strong!”
Goldblum sighed with relief.
“Bauman! Really, I can accept My people need to eat, but really: serving Ham & Cheese Sandwiches to the devout at the temple during Yom Kippur?”
Bauman hung his head in shame.
“Even that I can allow to pass, even with the eating of that which is not Kosher. I’m not pleased at all with the playing fast and loose with my people, but I can accept these indiscretions.”
Bauman also heaved a sigh of relief.
Finally, He turns to the third rabbi and says, “You, Rabinowitz, have gone too far! Am I asking too much? No, you flaunt the world at Me, even on the holiest days of Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur by putting out a sign saying….
‘Closed for the Holidays!'”
Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. Look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. Think only of the best, work only for the best, and expect only the best. Forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. Give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. Live in the faith that the whole world is on your side so long as you are true to the best that is in you!
Stay well, do good work, and have fun.
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